朋友的禅机十则的读后感

     如果说当年对基思还是一片茫然，只是被动的接受，如今却深深地被同化了。思想是为变化准备的。玛吉的撒其尔准则正如她本人：很美。然而正如这群人所信奉的那样，变化是一直存在的，那么是否有什么是不变的呢。几乎没有人愿意生活在动荡和不确定中。的确，放眼人类甚至是动物界，总是有达尔文主义的影子。为什么要掌握权利，获得控制权，仅仅是因为虚荣心吗？当然不会，那位置人气少的可怜，但是却有诱人的魅力。关键是在到达那个位置之前，有野心的人总认为那才是最有保障和最稳定的。至于所说喜欢挑战啊什么的，那只不过是在配菜或者说是甜品。哈耶克曾说到资本主义和社会主义的区别：资本主义是先创造财富再分配，而社会主义却与之相反。 而在物质仍然匮乏的时代，社会主义注定失败。那么这两者的分界是什么呢：回到中学的课本，生产力与生产关系。或者当今的世界将越来越无法分清他们之间的区别。这个世界只有强者才能生存，是有这句话吧。那现在的强者是什么呢？ 信息和物资的掌控人。不论他是什么，可能是个人，可能是个组织，也可能是政府，有它们的人就可以骄傲。因此人们追求的稳定就变得肯定了。它们的去留，增减会影响人的心情甚至是行动吧。-AMY

听妈妈说，我在她肚子里的时候是个很安静的小孩，出生的时候也跟大人们预定好的日子吻合的天衣无缝。安静&平静、却又带一点点儿坏的我象极了女人手里捧着的苹果。稍长点儿就叛逆了吧。体育课上落单的人总是我吧，享受特权的也是我哦，没办法谁叫我资质好呢，班里的男生都跑不过我呢。于是越发懒了，越发滥用特权。那时候如果就知道张扬，或许我就不能再享受自己的那份宁静和快乐。运动是争斗之心，因此不适合我。那时候，为自己的这点儿小聪明偷偷乐着，既然是优势只要不消失就留着吧。可是，就在一个阴雨的午后，我又怀念运动了，一发不可收拾。既然主意定了，就动吧。于是。。。找到了自己失散了许久的本心。就像尘封了一个世纪的心在这一刻又重新复活了。

Druming my fingernails on white linen tableclothes.

Looking around my air devotional.

Wondering,searching,sniffing

the wind like a dapple deer.

Will Cinderella dance?

No...she could do.

It is my dream

Can't sing a note

but to make that kinda sacrifice

 

“8月25日，上海社会科学院社会学所心理学教授张结海在博客中发出《网络追逐流氓老外大行动》的帖子。该帖子一经发出，即被天涯、猫扑、西祠等网络社区广泛转载，网友纷纷声讨帖子中所指的“流氓老外”。

在帖子中，“流氓老外”是指一个在上海的外教，英国人，网名为China abounder（中国暴发户）。他之所以被“网络追逐”，是因为网友们根据他的博客内容总结出了他的“四宗罪”：玩弄中国女性，侮辱中国男性，诋毁中国人的民族情感，公开散播分裂中国的言论。

结海说，他在看到Chinabounder的博客之后“感到无比震惊和愤怒”。在Chinabounder的博客里，大部分内容记录了他在上海玩弄中国女性的过程，而这些中国女性大部分是他的学生。

Chinabounder在博客中宣称，他纯粹只是为了玩弄这些中国女学生，他说，“我们不谈爱，不谈婚姻。”。。。。”

信息来源：http://news.qq.com/a/20060831/000213.htm

-我们尚且不谈这个老外的职业道德之差，人品之恶劣，用人单位聘用制度之松懈，今天只来说说我们女性所面临的伤害和保护自己的能力。有个研究心理的人对恋爱曾说过16岁之前是游戏，20岁之前是预演，25岁才是认真的。但是对于女人来说，不管发生在哪个年龄，只要有一次真正的爱情就够了。如何选择和经营是女性毕生在追求的事情。世界上这样的人恐怕有很多，只因他是老外在加上太过的张扬，才会众人皆知。那么其他人呢，我们怎么知道走一步不触到地雷呢，又怎么会知道不被流弹打中呢。静以修身，节俭以养德，多培养自己的特长，是不是明智之举呢。Amy Said.

 

歌曲介绍：

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Red roses were her favorites, her name was also Rose. And every year her husband sent them, tied with pretty bows. The year he died, the roses were delivered to her door. The card said, "Be my Valentine, "like all the years before.

Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say, "I love you even more this year, than last year on this day. ""My love for you will always grow, with every passing year. "She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear. She thought, he ordered roses in advance before this day. Her loving husband did not know, that he would pass away. He always liked to do things early. Then, if he got too busy, everything would work out fine. She trimmed the stems, and placed them in a very special vase. Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face. She would sit for hours, in her husband's favorite chair. While staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there.

A year went by, and it was hard to live without her mate. With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate. Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before, the door-bell rang, and there were roses, sitting by her door. She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock. Then, went to get the telephone, to call the florist shop. The owner answered, and she asked him, if he would explain, why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain？

"I know your husband passed away, more than a year ago, " The owner said, "I knew you'd call, and you would want to know. " "The flowers you received today, were paid for in advance. " "Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance. "

"There is a standing order, that I have on file down here. And he has paid, well in advance, you'll get them every year. There also is another thing, that I think you should know. He wrote a special little card. . . he did this years ago. "

"Then, should ever, I find out that he's no longer here. That's the card. . . that should be sent, to you the following year. "

She thanked him and hung up the phone, her tears now flowing hard. Her fingers shaking, as she slowly reached to get the card. Inside the card, she saw that he had written her a note. Then, as she stared in total silence, this is what he wrote: "Hello my love, I know it's been a year since I've been gone, I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome. " "I know it must be lonely, and the pain is very real. For if it was the other way, I know how I would feel. The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life. I loved you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife. "

"You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need. I know it's only been a year, but please try not to grieve. I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears. That is why the roses will be sent to you for years. "

"When you get these roses, think of all the happiness that we had together, and how both of us were blessed. I have always loved you and I know I always will. But, my love, you must go on, you have some living still. " 

"Please. . . try to find happiness, while living out your days. I know it is not easy, but I hope you find some ways. The roses will come every year, and they will only stop when your door's not answered, when the florist stops to knock. "

"He will come five times that day, in case you have gone out. But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt. To take the roses to the place, where I've instructed him, and place the rose where we are, together once again. "

From My Friend's Mail

-爱情是香醇的美酒，历久弥香；是JEANS牛仔裤，在岁月的摩挲下耀耀生辉。是什么让这一切如此美丽，是情人间的关怀和宽容。如果你正在拥有或是将要拥有这份美丽，请记住这个秘诀。Amy said.